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LEMONADE IS STILL IN SIGHT

I broke into Quincy’s mind, and this was what I found.  Most days start with him getting his kids ready for school. He was not a single father, but doing that has become a routine. One of his boys will regularly ask if he can sleep some more, Quincy will say no as it is […]

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MY LIVING EXPERIENCE AT STONE DARTFORD

Stone is a village in Dartford,Kent and I lived there for 12 months, though I still have a few attachments to the place.  This includes my favourite place in Dartford, which is Stone Baptist Church,  my son pre-school was at Stone, and a very precious family that has been so kind to my family also […]

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SPANKING AT THE SPA

It was the audacity to ask for referrals that annoyed me the most. We returned from what was supposed to be a massage session looking for painkillers. A day later, one lady called to ask how relaxed our bodies were after the session. My first question was: Where were you when the spa offered us […]

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WHY YOU SHOULDN’T BET ON ARSENAL OR NASTY ONANA

Cruz said “I don dey cash out oo” just before we had our daily brief before work. One would have thought that all is well with every migrant that made it to the western world, but that’s not really the case. A while ago, I noticed some guys were always with their phones even while […]

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THE CALL FROM JESUS

The call from Jesus Christ is that you follow Him, and the admonition from Paul is to follow those who, through faith and patience, obtain the promise. Jesus didn’t promise funfair if you follow him. He essentially promised us an identity and to give a sense of duty just as He told Peter; follow me, […]

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HOW TO FIGHT DEPRESSION WITH REFLECTIONS AND GRATITUDE.

It is generally easier to remember our misery than to remember of victories. This is the same as it is easier to stay poor while being comfortable or rich will require deliberate effort. Now let me ask you my reader,  what are the things you are most grateful for? Have you gotten to a point […]

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HOW TO FOCUS ON GOD

Let’s start with a very old saying which says “out of sight is out of mind” The first question to ask ourselves is if we have not let God out of sight in our search options. A very important attribute of God is that he does things largely because he wants to do them. His […]

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HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THE 2023 ELECTION?

For some, things are back to normal, for some it has not and for some it will never come to normal. Analysis, theories and prophecies but only few have the desire to admit that they have sentiments. One thing whose usage has been largely abused in this season has been our tongues. Our guts and […]

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Faith

HOW TO FIGHT NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

Recently I was listening to Prophet Adesoji when he was referring to a time he had the urge to pray because his heart was heavy. According to him, he could not clearly state what the matter was but he stood in prayers for some minutes until the heaviness of his heart disappeared. He used the […]

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RANDOM THOUGHTS ABOUT SYSTEMS 

One of the best things that can happen to an individual is to operate inside a functioning system. One of the greatest disservices a system can experience is for the people that make up the system to start acting contrary to the rules of engagement that are upholding the system. Systems are hard to build […]